In a society where immorality is high and it’s going to be worst day by day. It shows that our society is going insane everyday. Things that cannot be displayed for the public view before is now freely shown to the world through indecent dressing and nudity on our screens, phones, sites and so on.
I watched a video of a young woman that was publicly disgraced by some young men because she dressed scantily and indecently in the public and I felt sorry for her, but just as the saying goes “you will be addressed by the way you dress.” Don’t forget that prostitutes dressed indecently in order to attract men that are looking for sex for themselves, so if you are not looking for sex you should not dress in the way that will expose your private parts or cleavages.
So if you dress indecently don’t be surprised if various types of guys especially the unworthy ones begin to whistle at you and also demand sex from you, just know you asked for this undue attention because of your dressing.
It baffles me how some parents will encourage their young female children to dress immodestly in skimpy dress to parties or outings, unknown to them they are exposing their children to sexual predators. It is high time we started encouraging our young women to appreciate their beauties without exposing their bodies for the world to see. Let us encourage them to appreciate tthemselves without seeking for the opinions of others. Our young women should focus more on their character, intelligence, life goals, life purpose rather than on their physical appearance.
Parents should encourage their children to appreciate the way God made and be proud of themselves.
I’ve met some women that are physically beautiful but lacked good character to compliment such physical beauty which made me to dissociate myself from them. Hardly will you see a man that will be willing to spend the rest of his life with a woman that lacks good character (the same goes with a man that lacks good character). Most women complained about men cheating on them with other women despite how beautiful they are. See, I’m not disputing the fact that there are men that only seek after your body. What I’m saying is that you need to develop your person rather than your physical beauty.
I’ve met and know some young women that are beautiful both in and out without them exposing their bodies because real beauty lies in the character of a person. These young women are smart, intelligent, insightful with purpose of life coupled with wonderful character that only increase my respect and admiration for them.
I will always encourage decency, beauty, good character and simplicity in our young women. There are much the woman can offer the man and the society at large than her body. There are things I feel comfortable discussing with my female friends than with my male friends even though some of them might be sensitive (not sex topics) but they tend to be more understanding and accommodating.
So, I hope we can start encouraging our young women about dressing decently without looking for people’s approval/disapproval. Let’s encourage them to pursue their life goals and purpose in life without allowing opposition to hinder them from getting to the top in life. Help them to develop good character through God’s Word and godly examples that will bring sanity back to our society and never to be intimidated by the opinions of others. Let’s appreciate the ones that are making good marks wherever they are despite pressures to follow the madness of immorality, indecency and deceptions being displayed in the society.
A beloved friend of mine said in her words: “Many youths of this generation need to understand that you don’t have to go naked before you proof to all of us that you are beautiful…it ain’t their faults though, but the mentality that has been imbibe in them. We need to be role models and create new sense of mentality to help build up decent way of dressing in them.”
I love this comment of hers and it summed up what I’ve been saying all along.
Let us encourage decency, simplicity+intelligence and good character+beauty among our young women.
I’m ready to do my part, will you do yours??
God bless us as we do it together.