Not For Kids

The first time you saw her your heart somersaulted several times because you’ve never seen such a beautiful woman like her before. Her beauty, her smile, her words and everything about her is second to none. You can’t keep your eyes away from her, you did everything in your might to seek her attention. She proved to be too difficult for you but you persisted in your effort to win her heart, every other woman you met can never be compared to her. After all your efforts to gain her to your side, she finally agreed to date you but you told her you loved her to the extent of deciding to make her your wife, she was so excited that a man like you decided to marry her. You finally married her after few months/years of proposing to her.
Few years after you married her with wonderful kids, her skin/body is no longer appealing to you, her face is now growing older with few wrinkles, she’s no longer that sexy lady you met. You are now looking for excuses to stay away from her even to the extent of calling her a witch. You’ve now seen another gal that makes you go crazy to the extent of disgracing your wife openly for the world to see.
Is this not what is happening nowadays to some women who do not know what their husbands are doing behind them. I now read in the newspapers that some husbands are hiring some women as “wife” in order to divorce or chase away the real wife.
I was so annoyed when I saw this picture on Twitter that I had to screenshot it.
If you have problems with your woman/wife why can’t you settle it amicably with her without drawing public attention to your lies and deceptions?
It’s high time these “kids” who called themselves men stopped embarrassing/disgracing their wives publicly for God’s sake.
Marriage is not for kids but for real men. Marriage is not for men who cannot have control over themselves. If you are not matured spiritually, emotional and mentally, marriage is not for you.
If you are not ready to face the challenges and trials that come with been in a relationship/marriage then stay away from it.
#ListenLearnGrow

Akinkuade Oluwadare Tobi 2017©

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